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		<title>Comment on Why Your Girlfriend Has Such Bad Taste in Music by quanology admin</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-244</link>
		<author>quanology admin</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,
I agree with your statement about creativity. Creativity can maybe be looked at as the ability to solve problems - and that is the traditional role of men. Women approach cooking more as a means to provide for their family, while men cook from the standpoint of solving a problem, namely "how can I cook this to make it taste the best". One way is not better than the other...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,<br />
I agree with your statement about creativity. Creativity can maybe be looked at as the ability to solve problems - and that is the traditional role of men. Women approach cooking more as a means to provide for their family, while men cook from the standpoint of solving a problem, namely &#8220;how can I cook this to make it taste the best&#8221;. One way is not better than the other&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Your Girlfriend Has Such Bad Taste in Music by john UK</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-236</link>
		<author>john UK</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 09:31:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-236</guid>
		<description>I agree totally. It's kinda taboo to pick on differences between sexes where it favours men though. Ever noticed how there are a lot of female classical pianists, but very very few top composers? My opinion is that women are good at processing the information and completing tasks but they lack the creativity of men. Same with cooking, i would guess more women cook casually than men, but the innovative, pioneering chefs tend to be men. 

But in general, yes i agree that women tend to have a tacky taste in music. I feel it is purely because they are less creative. I have studied music with men and women, and i only ever really had fundamental and deep debates about music with other men. Women always seemed satisfied just to play a piece perfectly, rather than understanding the piece.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree totally. It&#8217;s kinda taboo to pick on differences between sexes where it favours men though. Ever noticed how there are a lot of female classical pianists, but very very few top composers? My opinion is that women are good at processing the information and completing tasks but they lack the creativity of men. Same with cooking, i would guess more women cook casually than men, but the innovative, pioneering chefs tend to be men. </p>
<p>But in general, yes i agree that women tend to have a tacky taste in music. I feel it is purely because they are less creative. I have studied music with men and women, and i only ever really had fundamental and deep debates about music with other men. Women always seemed satisfied just to play a piece perfectly, rather than understanding the piece.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Science Behind “The Secret” by Carl Pleasure</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/the-science-behind-%e2%80%9cthe-secret%e2%80%9d/#comment-218</link>
		<author>Carl Pleasure</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 20:29:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/the-science-behind-%e2%80%9cthe-secret%e2%80%9d/#comment-218</guid>
		<description>Thanks, I have struggled with the use of the term Law.  I have studied systems and actually early in life got a BA degree in Computer Information Systems.  Thanks for clearing so much up.

I just need to develop a congruent system and don't really have to understand the hows or whys.

Carl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, I have struggled with the use of the term Law.  I have studied systems and actually early in life got a BA degree in Computer Information Systems.  Thanks for clearing so much up.</p>
<p>I just need to develop a congruent system and don&#8217;t really have to understand the hows or whys.</p>
<p>Carl</p>
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		<title>Comment on Evolutionary Origins of the The Law of Attraction by The Secret Gathering</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/evolutionary-origins-of-the-the-law-of-attraction/#comment-71</link>
		<author>The Secret Gathering</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 13:41:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/evolutionary-origins-of-the-the-law-of-attraction/#comment-71</guid>
		<description>Very interesting!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting!<br />
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		<title>Comment on An Introduction to Cultural Evolution by Joni</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/an-introduction-to-cultural-evolution/#comment-11</link>
		<author>Joni</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Nov 2007 20:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/an-introduction-to-cultural-evolution/#comment-11</guid>
		<description>There’s a thread that runs through 3 very different stories I saw this AM on CNN about: 1. Playboy, Hustler &#38; the Pentagon 2. Funky high heels 3. software that generates phony doctor’s excuses, 

1. Throughout history, where there’s war and injustice, there are men who try to find balance with the horror they participate in by aggressing on women and children. Ancient cultures had sacred prostitutes who helped warriors bridge the gap between murdering for a living  an d trying to fit back in to family life. So Pentagon procurement officers justify the use of our tax dollars to supply soldiers with Playboy an d Hustler because that’s the least we can do for the body’s whacked out sexual responses to war. Please, more news on the price we pay for re-integrating trained killers.

 2. At first I thought  I could really use those convertible heel shoes because high heels hurt and they dictate participation. The necessity for rippling footwear in order to “look professional,” indicates a deep cultural risk in its definition of success for women. Why do we take  for granted that women need dangerous shoes in order to compete professionally? Violence and destruction in cultures corresponds to the degree to which women are relegated out of public eye. Imagine if we remove even such widely accepted handicaps as obligatory high heels ?

3. No wonder people buy products that compromise their ethical well-being to get out of work.  Just like terrorism breeds where there is injustice, the indignity of compromised working conditions creates workers who feel no choice but to compromise their ethics in order to cope – a civil slippery slope.  Anyway, how did doctors get a monopoly on the time we need to restore?

The thread is that the more humanely we treat all beings, the more joy and well-being there is in the culture. We live with the rise  of abhorrent sexual exploitation; we’re saturated by corporate calls for fear and consumption; and we’ve got a workforce whose rights to the highest ideals of democracy have been hijacked by capitalism.  We watch gigantic hardware shows on the news with little regard for destroyed families and no remorse for devastating  the fruits of many generations’ labor. Meanwhhile, we fret over how high our heels are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There’s a thread that runs through 3 very different stories I saw this AM on CNN about: 1. Playboy, Hustler &amp; the Pentagon 2. Funky high heels 3. software that generates phony doctor’s excuses, </p>
<p>1. Throughout history, where there’s war and injustice, there are men who try to find balance with the horror they participate in by aggressing on women and children. Ancient cultures had sacred prostitutes who helped warriors bridge the gap between murdering for a living  an d trying to fit back in to family life. So Pentagon procurement officers justify the use of our tax dollars to supply soldiers with Playboy an d Hustler because that’s the least we can do for the body’s whacked out sexual responses to war. Please, more news on the price we pay for re-integrating trained killers.</p>
<p> 2. At first I thought  I could really use those convertible heel shoes because high heels hurt and they dictate participation. The necessity for rippling footwear in order to “look professional,” indicates a deep cultural risk in its definition of success for women. Why do we take  for granted that women need dangerous shoes in order to compete professionally? Violence and destruction in cultures corresponds to the degree to which women are relegated out of public eye. Imagine if we remove even such widely accepted handicaps as obligatory high heels ?</p>
<p>3. No wonder people buy products that compromise their ethical well-being to get out of work.  Just like terrorism breeds where there is injustice, the indignity of compromised working conditions creates workers who feel no choice but to compromise their ethics in order to cope – a civil slippery slope.  Anyway, how did doctors get a monopoly on the time we need to restore?</p>
<p>The thread is that the more humanely we treat all beings, the more joy and well-being there is in the culture. We live with the rise  of abhorrent sexual exploitation; we’re saturated by corporate calls for fear and consumption; and we’ve got a workforce whose rights to the highest ideals of democracy have been hijacked by capitalism.  We watch gigantic hardware shows on the news with little regard for destroyed families and no remorse for devastating  the fruits of many generations’ labor. Meanwhhile, we fret over how high our heels are.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Morality by quanology admin</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-8</link>
		<author>quanology admin</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2007 18:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-8</guid>
		<description>Hi Todd, thanks for your comment! I'm actually saying that humans only matter to humans - the universe doesn't care about us. But it makes sense that human happiness is important to humans, it just couldn't be any other way, right? And you bring up the point that machines have no morality, which I agree with, and I do believe we are just a part of this machine, but I'm just making the point that morality, as humans define it, was just an adaptation for us to fit better within this machine, like a cheetah that gets faster with the generations also to fit better in this machine. Even if good and bad are human constructs, good still feels good and bad still feels bad, so be good to be happy and if you're bad, you're probably missing out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Todd, thanks for your comment! I&#8217;m actually saying that humans only matter to humans - the universe doesn&#8217;t care about us. But it makes sense that human happiness is important to humans, it just couldn&#8217;t be any other way, right? And you bring up the point that machines have no morality, which I agree with, and I do believe we are just a part of this machine, but I&#8217;m just making the point that morality, as humans define it, was just an adaptation for us to fit better within this machine, like a cheetah that gets faster with the generations also to fit better in this machine. Even if good and bad are human constructs, good still feels good and bad still feels bad, so be good to be happy and if you&#8217;re bad, you&#8217;re probably missing out.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Morality by quanology admin</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-7</link>
		<author>quanology admin</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2007 18:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-7</guid>
		<description>Hi Alfonz, thanks for your comment. And I agree - no, the point of morality is not to "feel nice". But I'm saying nature has made it feel nice because of its benefits to the gene pool. Nature made sex feels nice for the same reason. I guess I could go so far to say that exercising any evolutionary adaptation feels nice... Damn, just opened up a whole other set of issues on that one. But I don't understand what you mean by "being able to do without a God means that you’re very hard to manipulate". Would you mind explaining?
Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Alfonz, thanks for your comment. And I agree - no, the point of morality is not to &#8220;feel nice&#8221;. But I&#8217;m saying nature has made it feel nice because of its benefits to the gene pool. Nature made sex feels nice for the same reason. I guess I could go so far to say that exercising any evolutionary adaptation feels nice&#8230; Damn, just opened up a whole other set of issues on that one. But I don&#8217;t understand what you mean by &#8220;being able to do without a God means that you’re very hard to manipulate&#8221;. Would you mind explaining?<br />
Thanks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Morality by Todd</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-6</link>
		<author>Todd</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2007 21:17:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-6</guid>
		<description>Humans care so much about their own happiness that I'm afraid they've convinced themselves that "humanity" and human happiness are absolute "goods" and should therefore be maximized.  At best, I think these are value judgments and not objective truth.  The young child's endless series of "why" questions may be annoying to the parent but they are essentially profound.  Ask yourself why human happiness is important and keep asking why to each successive answer until you get to the point where you can go no further.  At that point you've reached an axiom, by definition something unprovable that must be accepted as self-obvious or rejected.  In a universe without something transcendent to "prove to self-obvious," everything else we do is built on the shifting sands of self-obviousness.  Hypothetically, you say humans matter and I can say they don't and you can't prove me wrong.

At worst, the concepts of value, meaning, purpose become non-existent when viewed through the lens of a modern science, which tells us that the universe is a deterministic machine including humans and that free will is illusory.  A machine with no ostensible purpose can never be said to be broken or have some internal states that are good and others that are bad.  Machines just exist and can have no morality since they have have no choice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Humans care so much about their own happiness that I&#8217;m afraid they&#8217;ve convinced themselves that &#8220;humanity&#8221; and human happiness are absolute &#8220;goods&#8221; and should therefore be maximized.  At best, I think these are value judgments and not objective truth.  The young child&#8217;s endless series of &#8220;why&#8221; questions may be annoying to the parent but they are essentially profound.  Ask yourself why human happiness is important and keep asking why to each successive answer until you get to the point where you can go no further.  At that point you&#8217;ve reached an axiom, by definition something unprovable that must be accepted as self-obvious or rejected.  In a universe without something transcendent to &#8220;prove to self-obvious,&#8221; everything else we do is built on the shifting sands of self-obviousness.  Hypothetically, you say humans matter and I can say they don&#8217;t and you can&#8217;t prove me wrong.</p>
<p>At worst, the concepts of value, meaning, purpose become non-existent when viewed through the lens of a modern science, which tells us that the universe is a deterministic machine including humans and that free will is illusory.  A machine with no ostensible purpose can never be said to be broken or have some internal states that are good and others that are bad.  Machines just exist and can have no morality since they have have no choice.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Morality by Alfonz</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-5</link>
		<author>Alfonz</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2007 17:11:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/the-evolution-of-morality/#comment-5</guid>
		<description>The point of morality is not "to feel nice", but to work with the group and not against it, so everyone benefits on average. And you don't need a God for that. Being able to do without a God means that you're very hard to manipulate, which is a good thing for everyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The point of morality is not &#8220;to feel nice&#8221;, but to work with the group and not against it, so everyone benefits on average. And you don&#8217;t need a God for that. Being able to do without a God means that you&#8217;re very hard to manipulate, which is a good thing for everyone.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Your Girlfriend Has Such Bad Taste in Music by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-4</link>
		<author>admin</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Oct 2007 15:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ovid, thanks for your comment. What I'm saying is based on evolutionary psychology. I'm not saying they are right and I'm not trying to prove what they're saying - I mean, they still haven't proven evolution itself, it's still just a theory. But if what they're saying IS right and our personalities and actions are largely dictated by subconscious drives which nature has built into us over the course of millions of years, then this is an explanation of this little phenomenon I've observed over the course of my life, namely that men and women like music for different reasons. Those reasons have to do with the inherent differences between men and women. Now, the title implies that women have bad taste in music. I'll admit, that's crap - it was just a catchy title and something I say ironically (ie. "any taste different from mine is bad"). I mean, who says Sting is worse than The Police? But the big point is, many (probably most) of the differences between men and women have a real natural basis - they're not just something learned because our society treats men one way and women a different way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ovid, thanks for your comment. What I&#8217;m saying is based on evolutionary psychology. I&#8217;m not saying they are right and I&#8217;m not trying to prove what they&#8217;re saying - I mean, they still haven&#8217;t proven evolution itself, it&#8217;s still just a theory. But if what they&#8217;re saying IS right and our personalities and actions are largely dictated by subconscious drives which nature has built into us over the course of millions of years, then this is an explanation of this little phenomenon I&#8217;ve observed over the course of my life, namely that men and women like music for different reasons. Those reasons have to do with the inherent differences between men and women. Now, the title implies that women have bad taste in music. I&#8217;ll admit, that&#8217;s crap - it was just a catchy title and something I say ironically (ie. &#8220;any taste different from mine is bad&#8221;). I mean, who says Sting is worse than The Police? But the big point is, many (probably most) of the differences between men and women have a real natural basis - they&#8217;re not just something learned because our society treats men one way and women a different way.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Your Girlfriend Has Such Bad Taste in Music by ovid</title>
		<link>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-3</link>
		<author>ovid</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Oct 2007 16:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/#comment-3</guid>
		<description>BEGIN THE OPINIONATED DISCUSSION!

most of the girls I know listen to fantastic music; the girls who don't, are the sorority girls who want Timberlake and the gay guy from American Idol 24/7, and the fraternity men on their level just want similarly uncomplicated generic radio-rock; women get their superficial happiness, and men get their superficial everyone can growl along "rock"; men don't seem better off here.

you mention power; you could substitute every word about music, for voting, working, nascar, IT/computing etc., as these and every other area is dominated by men(and we can't say we're better at voting simply because we've done it longer); through the history of the world have pushed women out; simply because we dominate the music field doesn't mean we are predisposed to making music. Just because we are men doesn't mean it's natural to wear pants and not skirts (scottish did it); it's just socially imbued information/drive/desire, though I realize there are plenty of differences between men and women that make them better at different things.

Also, when you say "this is not based a specific scientific study," do you mean it's based wholly on your own observations and not on a study at all? :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BEGIN THE OPINIONATED DISCUSSION!</p>
<p>most of the girls I know listen to fantastic music; the girls who don&#8217;t, are the sorority girls who want Timberlake and the gay guy from American Idol 24/7, and the fraternity men on their level just want similarly uncomplicated generic radio-rock; women get their superficial happiness, and men get their superficial everyone can growl along &#8220;rock&#8221;; men don&#8217;t seem better off here.</p>
<p>you mention power; you could substitute every word about music, for voting, working, nascar, IT/computing etc., as these and every other area is dominated by men(and we can&#8217;t say we&#8217;re better at voting simply because we&#8217;ve done it longer); through the history of the world have pushed women out; simply because we dominate the music field doesn&#8217;t mean we are predisposed to making music. Just because we are men doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s natural to wear pants and not skirts (scottish did it); it&#8217;s just socially imbued information/drive/desire, though I realize there are plenty of differences between men and women that make them better at different things.</p>
<p>Also, when you say &#8220;this is not based a specific scientific study,&#8221; do you mean it&#8217;s based wholly on your own observations and not on a study at all? <img src='http://www.quanology.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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