Category, Level 3 Theory

Aha, this is not "attraction" as in "The Secret". This is attraction as in "me Tarzan, you Jane". Finding that special someone and feeling that they were made for you and you for them. Is it physical? Is it emotional? It's both, but it's worth an in-depth look to find out why you're with that special someone. I was sitting with some friends wondering why people are attracted to each other. In all honesty, we were looking at very unattractive couples and wondering if they were happy with their mate. Answer? Of course they are, or at least were. There are no couples if there is no attraction....

Aren't I clever. It may be a cheeky little title, but their is truth in this little pun. I don't claim to know much about the actual official system GTD (Getting Things Done) by David Allen, but do know a bit about accomplishing goals - especially from a psychological perspective. We'll kick things off with the following statement: (pretty much) everything you do is the result of a subconscious decision based on an also subconscious analysis of pros and cons of doing/not doing the thing in question. In other words, you're doing something because you enjoy the results of doing it more than the...

I've just finished reading Felix Dennis' book "How to Get Rich". Brilliant. Finally a guy who's done it explaining how - not just in vague terms and endless passages of subtle self-praise but in real concise strategy and mental approach. As Dennis points out, many of the books on the market are written by those who have not attained any staggering wealth and are abound with all too obvious tips such as "be good at what you do" or "be a leader" (ok, he mentions these too, but goes into lots of juicy detail). Dennis also airs some distaste for the feel-good strategies of cooperation and partners...

Everywhere you look there are people underachieving, living dreary lives, or just not living the life they want to live. So why aren't they? In the age we live in, there should be no excuse.  There is one example after another of someone whose life has quickly gone from crappiest to happiest. Here are the 4 reasons why people aren't getting the good stuff.   1. They don't really want them Ask people what they want in life and they tell you all kinds of standard things: a cool job, lots of money, good friends, plenty of free time, and good relationships. Dig a little deeper and you mig...