Aren’t I clever. It may be a cheeky little title, but their is truth in this little pun. I don’t claim to know much about the actual official system GTD (Getting Things Done) by David Allen, but do know a bit about accomplishing goals - especially from a psychological perspective.

We’ll kick things off with the following statement: (pretty much) everything you do is the result of a subconscious decision based on an also subconscious analysis of pros and cons of doing/not doing the thing in question. In other words, you’re doing something because you enjoy the results of doing it more than the lack of results of not doing it. This may sound painfully obvious, but goal setting and systems for going through a to-do list can often leave out this fundamental issue.”Just make a list”, they say but seem to ignore the psychological necessities of doing this. Whenever you see someone being very good at something, you can bet they’re enjoying not only the achievement of the goal but the actual process of executing. Professional athletes love training. Anyone who doesn’t will not make the cut. If you want to excel at something, it’s a psychological must to enjoy the process. How could you compete with someone who loves to train and practice when you hate it?

In our lives, we may not be training for the Olympics, but we all have a list of things to do - a set of steps to get us to where we want to go. But we need to enjoy the ride. Otherwise those little tasks become psychological mountains. If you are able to change some key perceptions, then you can make the opposite happen - turning those ominous, scary, risky, difficult tasks into enjoyable adventures. It’s not just about using the word “challenge” instead of “pain in the ass”, but it is a slight dabble in mind manipulation.

You’ll need to convince yourself of 3 key things:

1. the thing you need to do is super important and accomplishing it will add tremendous joy and happiness to your life
2. not doing it will ruin you
3. it’ll be fun! So doesn’t matter if it works out of not, it’s all about doing your best.

Do these have to be true? The first one should be (otherwise, why are you doing it?). The second one may not be, but you can lie to yourself just a bit to get the desired result. You lie to your muscles when you work out saying “grow! or we’ll be tiger food!”. The reality of it all is secondary, but the perception is what it all rests on. Will it really be your downfall if you don’t set up a meeting with that one person? I’m sure you’ll figure a way to bounce back, but if you can rationalize how devastating it would be if you didn’t, then it should feel so much more natural and effortless to do it. Thirdly, “it’ll be fun”…

Truth is, everything is fun if you do it right. Just like every moment is a chance to be happy, if you do it right. The things you are and the things you feel only have meaning through your own perceptions. The universe doesn’t really care. Is coding a website fun? Is writing a business plan fun? Is creating a 1000-man company fun? I think it depends more on you than on the actual task. Some people are more geared to certain tasks than others, no doubt. Don’t ask my wife to code anything. And don’t ask me to pick out a color scheme for the living room. But many many things could be either fun or annoying. Choose fun and see how much easier it gets.

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